Let me share an insight that now as I thought it through seems very obvious but it wasn't the case before. First let me briefly paint a background, and a context, for the upcoming exploration. Life is a dance between safety and risk-taking, excitement and calm. When there is too much calm, we get bored and look for challenges. When it is too risky we withdraw to a safe place. When things are getting very very risky, we grab whatever is available around to feel safe. That is one of the reasons why people who are going through break-ups or traumatic experiences are so susceptible and often being misused. They are looking for safety so desperately that simply another human, any human next to them is already a comforting enough situation to soothe the pain and feel safe at some level. When there is too much comfort it leads to recklessness and carelessness which can allow for expansion but also rupture. But assuming strength, rupture is not an issue and facilitated recovery even if it was a larger rapture.
Twists and bends.
Twists and bends.
Twists and bends.
Let me share an insight that now as I thought it through seems very obvious but it wasn't the case before. First let me briefly paint a background, and a context, for the upcoming exploration. Life is a dance between safety and risk-taking, excitement and calm. When there is too much calm, we get bored and look for challenges. When it is too risky we withdraw to a safe place. When things are getting very very risky, we grab whatever is available around to feel safe. That is one of the reasons why people who are going through break-ups or traumatic experiences are so susceptible and often being misused. They are looking for safety so desperately that simply another human, any human next to them is already a comforting enough situation to soothe the pain and feel safe at some level. When there is too much comfort it leads to recklessness and carelessness which can allow for expansion but also rupture. But assuming strength, rupture is not an issue and facilitated recovery even if it was a larger rapture.